About

I'm Jay.

A Nigerian relationship therapist and certified matchmaker — live on TikTok every day, matching real people out loud.

"I don't just match you — I see who you really are, then introduce you to someone who sees it too."

Most people aren't bad at love — they're just never really seen. That's the whole business: 437K+ of you show up every day to watch real people get real introductions.

Founder of Datestreama. The mission is simple: make matchmaking honest, fun, and something the whole crowd can root for.

Jay Matchmaker
Founder of Datestreama

Matching people live on TikTok — every day at 4:00 PM & 9:00 PM WAT.

About Jay

From the stream, to you.

I'm a Nigerian relationship therapist and certified matchmaker, but you'll mostly find me with my phone on a stand, talking to a stream of strangers about love.

Before matchmaking, I built a career in media, PR, and business development — I studied Mass Communication at Imo State University and picked up an MA in Public Relations from Birmingham City University. Along the way I lived in Australia and Canada, which taught me something I now build my whole business on: most people aren't bad at love, they're just never really seen.

That's where Datestreama came from. I started going live on TikTok as an experiment — read a few profiles, see what happened. What happened was a community. Now we're 437K+ strong and I'm live every single day at 4pm and 10pm WAT, reading real profiles and making real introductions.

When I'm not on the box, I run Tutor Connect Global, a platform that connects students with quality tutors, and I take private 1-on-1 matchmaking clients — usually diaspora folks who'd rather not have their love life narrated to a live audience.

The way I see it, love isn't luck. It's just two people paying attention at the same time. My job is to make sure that happens.

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Intention first

No games, no ghosting. Every match starts with what you actually want.

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Matched out loud

Introductions happen live, so the whole community is there to cheer.

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Community-led

Introductions happen live, and the chat roots for you — 437K+ strong and counting.

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Private when it counts

Prefer 1-on-1? Private matchmaking with compatibility scoring, no audience.

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