About

I'm Jay.

A Nigerian relationship therapist and certified matchmaker — live on TikTok every day, matching real people out loud.

"I don't just match you — I see who you really are, then introduce you to someone who sees it too."

Most people aren't bad at love — they're just never really seen. That's the whole business: 386K+ of you show up every day to watch real people get real introductions.

Founder of Datestreama. The mission is simple: make matchmaking honest, fun, and something the whole crowd can root for.

Jay Matchmaker
Founder of Datestreama

Matching people live on TikTok — every day at 4:00 PM & 9:00 PM WAT.

About Jay

From the stream, to you.

I'm a Nigerian relationship therapist and certified matchmaker, but you'll mostly find me with my phone on a stand, talking to a stream of strangers about love.

Before matchmaking, I built a career in media, PR, and business development — I studied Mass Communication at Imo State University and picked up an MA in Public Relations from Birmingham City University. Along the way I lived in Australia and Canada, which taught me something I now build my whole business on: most people aren't bad at love, they're just never really seen.

That's where Datestreama came from. I started going live on TikTok as an experiment — read a few profiles, see what happened. What happened was a community. Now we're 386K+ strong and I'm live every single day at 4pm and 10pm WAT, reading real profiles and making real introductions.

When I'm not on the box, I run Tutor Connect Global, a platform that connects students with quality tutors, and I take private 1-on-1 matchmaking clients — usually diaspora folks who'd rather not have their love life narrated to a live audience.

The way I see it, love isn't luck. It's just two people paying attention at the same time. My job is to make sure that happens.

Intention first

No games, no ghosting. Every match starts with what you actually want.

Matched out loud

Introductions happen live, so the whole community is there to cheer.

Community-led

Introductions happen live, and the chat roots for you — 386K+ strong and counting.

Private when it counts

Prefer 1-on-1? Private matchmaking with compatibility scoring, no audience.

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